Hello! I applied for the 2025 JET program and I look forward to hearing back!
When I told my SO about it, he kind of was really socked. He said that he is very proud of me for taking the initiative of my dream of living abroad and he supports me 100%, but that he would like to take a break if I decide to go/get accepted. We have been together for 5 years and I am kind of torn about it. He said that he does not think it would be good for him mentally if we did long distance. I personally didn't think that he would react this way and I believe that I could do long distance.
For people who did JET in relationships, what was your experience and what would you do in my situation?
Update: I just also want to clarify that we have always talked about moving to Japan/abroad when we have kids and stuff. He is not able to move with me because of school and other factors. We have are not married because we both agree that we want to be able to be in a better place financially to be able to fulfill our dreams. I found out about the Jet program a day before applications closed so I am really not expecting much, just wanted to see if there was an opportunity to check out the country before we actually decide to move there when we are ready to move.
by Affectionate_Ear_878