(My grammar sucks so please forgive me)
My family asked me if i wanted to move to japan or stay in the Philippines They asked me that when i was 16 year's old, I couldn't decide because i am indecisive I don't even know what dream job i want when i grow up so making me decide where to live made me anxious. I already was in japan before but my mother thought i was too lazy or depressed in japan that i can't speak or talk to anyone because of the language barrier so my mother and my japanese step father decided to send me back home to the Philippines but the embassy put a hole in my passport because i didn't stay in japan long enough so my family have to do some paperworks again to do my paper works and passport After i told them I'm going back in japan. My mother told me to not go to school for now because we are having financial problems so i am only a junior highschool graduate. A year later im 17 i got my visa and passport i can move to japan now but i didn't know about japan not allowing 18+ to move with my type of visa so the Philippine embassy and the person who assisted us working on my visa said it is okay to wait until 18 since i got my visa when i was still 17. So after i turned 18 my mother picked me up from japan after we arrived in japan the immigration stopped us and told us i couldn't get the eligibility certificate because i was over 18 even though i got the visa when i was 17 they didn't told us we should've went to japan before 18 so now I'm currently in japan with a 60 days visit visa that they changed from my permanent residence passport. The embassy said i could get a student visa but I'm still learning japanese so i doubt i can pass the entrance exams but even if i pass the entrance exams my family can't handle the tuition fee because i have a half japanese brother that is still going to school here so we will be struggling financially. However my mothers work boss said he can give me a work visa when i reached 20 years old but it is a obento sorting job the salary is 1k per hour it is another way to give me a chance to stay here in japan. Or my mother told me i can go back to Philippines and finish school bit it might take longer since I'm a junior highschool graduate i will have to finish senior highschool and get back to japan and choose a working category with japan work visa or i stay permanently in philippines and go to college and be a seaman. I don't know which to choose because of the current economy please help me 🥲
by Jimuel_Rhenz