Hey everyone,
I’m a 21-year-old guy living in Japan for the past 3 years. I originally came here for language school, and now I’m working part-time while helping with my family’s small business. My Japanese is around N2 level, but I still find speaking naturally a bit challenging.
Recently, I’ve been feeling like I’m in a strange in-between stage of life. I’m not in university right now because of financial reasons, but I’m trying to build my future through work and maybe starting my own business. At the same time, I want to enjoy my youth here, meet new people, and explore more of Japan.
The problem is, sometimes I feel a bit lonely and unsure about my direction. I’ve made some local friends, but it’s still hard to expand my social circle or know what steps to take next career-wise.
For those who have lived in Japan long-term:
• How did you build a fulfilling life here (friends, career, hobbies)?
• How do you deal with the feeling of “falling behind” compared to others your age?
• Any advice on balancing work, self-improvement, and enjoying life here?
I’d really appreciate hearing your experiences and any advice you can share. 🙏
by Patient_Resident_863