I’ve been going through something really heavy with my wife. She says she doesn’t love me anymore, but she also says she can’t leave me because she doesn’t want to be alone. Sometimes she tells me she stays with me because of all the memories we share, but at the same time she can’t promise me anything about not cheating.
Whenever I find a little motivation and look for support from her, she shuts me down, despises me, ruins it. But then it’s this constant love bombing cycle—some days she treats me horribly, and then other days she’s sweet and affectionate like nothing happened.
I’ve even lost 9 kilos in the past month, can’t even eat because I’m so confused, hurt and lost. I’m 25, and I honestly don’t know what to do anymore.
The worst part is that I know I have to leave her, but I want to stay in Japan and she’s the one sponsoring my visa. She even offered to stay legally married but not actually be together, just so I can stay here.
Any tips or advice?
by Dry-Transition9299