Marriage counseling

Since I realized there are a lot of military men here as a foreign spouse I wanna ask your opinion about interracial marriage.
My fellow spouses have American partners but their English isn’t that great. Sometimes when they have argument or meaningful conversation they ask someone who is fluent in both languages.
I feel like it’s a toxic relationship if you can’t communicate verbally with your partner. to avoid unnecessary drama within ladies I always hold my tongue . But still wanna know about other’s feelings and opinions.

by Gremilin23