12 Nights in Japan | Tokyo, Hakone, Kanazawa, Kyoto. With 3 teen boys and an active grandmother. Feedback welcomed!

This will be our first visit to Japan and I think chat and I have come up with a fairly good itinerary. But if there is something I am missing that is a must do/see. Or if I am wasting our time doing something that is "meh" I'd love to hear it! Also, any insight on the hotels I have chosen is welcome as well! It's a bit of a last minute trip so we are limited with availability. Lastly, this is a trip for my 13 year old foodie. He loves it all – if there is anything we have to try, please let me know! Thank you!!

Day 1 – Arrival in Tokyo (Afternoon)

  • Arrive at Haneda.
  • Transport: Monorail → Hamamatsuchō → Oedo Line → Tsukiji.
  • Check‑in at Tosei Hotel Cocone Tsukiji Ginza Premier.
  • Evening: Light walk in Ginza; dinner at Tsurutontan Udon, Roppongi.

Day 2 – Shibuya, Harajuku, Shinjuku

  • Morning: Meiji Shrine; Takeshita Street (Harajuku).
  • Lunch: Mawashi Sushi, Seibu Shibuya.
  • Afternoon: TeamLab Planets (Toyosu) — reserve ahead.
  • Evening: Shibuya Crossing at night + optional Shibuya Sky.
  • Dinner: Udon Shin, Shinjuku or somewhere in Shibuya.

Day 3 – Ginza, Akihabara, Meguro / Asakusa alternative

  • Morning: Ginza shopping (Mitsukoshi, Tokyu Plaza, etc.).
  • Lunch: Depachika or Kimuraya Bakery.
  • Afternoon:   Option A: Akihabara   Option B: Asakusa + Senso‑ji Temple (if wanting tradition)
  • Evening: Starbucks Reserve Roastery in Nakameguro + stroll by Meguro River.
  • Dinner: Izakaya in Ebisu or near hotel.

Day 4 – Day Trip to Kamakura

  • Transport: JR Yokosuka Line (~1 hr).
  • Sites: Great Buddha, Hase‑dera, Tsurugaoka Hachimangū, Komachi‑dori.
  • Return Tokyo in late afternoon.
  • Dinner: Jomon Roppongi (yakitori) – recommend reserving ahead.

Day 5 – Tokyo Disneyland or DisneySea

  • Transport: JR Keiyo Line → Maihama.
  • Full day at Disneyland or DisneySea.
  • Return in evening.
  • Dinner: in park or near hotel.

Day 6 – Early departure to Hakone

  • Check out Tokyo hotel.
  • Transport: Tokyo → Odawara via Hikari Shinkansen.
  • Pick up Hakone Freepass → Hakone loop: Tozan train, cable car, ropeway, Lake Ashi pirate ship. Visit Owakudani, Hakone Open Air Museum.
  • Overnight: Ryokan Aura Tachibana (onsen, kaiseki dinner).

Day 7 – Hakone → Kanazawa

  • Morning: depart Hakone, Hikari to Tokyo, then transfer via Hokuriku Shinkansen to Kanazawa.
  • Check in to SOKI Kanazawa.
  • Afternoon: Omicho Market, Higashi Chaya District.
  • Dinner: Kanazawa seafood / izakaya.

Day 8 – Shirakawa‑go day trip

  • Morning: early bus (~08:10 or 08:40) to Shirakawa‑go.
  • Sites: gasshō‑zukuri houses, Shiroyama Viewpoint.
  • Return ~16:00 to Kanazawa.
  • Evening: Kenrokuen Garden or 21st Century Museum.
  • Dinner: local cuisine.

Day 9 – Travel to Kyoto

  • Morning: Shinkansen from Kanazawa → Kyoto.
  • Check in Hotel Muso.
  • Afternoon: stroll Gion, Yasaka Shrine, Sannenzaka / Ninenzaka.
  • Dinner: Pontocho Alley.

Day 10 – Kyoto Highlights

  • Morning: Kinkaku‑ji.
  • Midday: Ryoan‑ji (rock garden).
  • Afternoon: Philosopher’s Path or Nishiki Market.
  • Dinner: Kaiseki or Kyoto style food.

Day 11 – Day Trip to Nara

  • Morning: possibly Fushimi Inari (if early), then Nara (Todaiji, Deer Park, Kasuga Taisha).
  • Return to Kyoto afternoon.
  • Dinner: final Kyoto dinner (izakaya or local favorite).

Day 12 – Kyoto → KIX Airport

  • Morning: free time (Arashiyama bamboo grove if time).
  • Afternoon: pack, relax.
  • Evening: Haruka Express from Kyoto → KIX (aim for departure ~20:15‑20:30).

by No-Ideal681