Stroke order difference – Is there a pattern?

I learned Korean Hanja first, and it has the same stroke order as Chinese Hanzi.

When I write down Japanese Kanji, sometimes I don't know the stroke order and write it down as the Chinese stroke order.

But when I am wrong, it drives me crazy.

These are some Kanji I found with different stroke orders :

必

Chinese: 儿 ソ 丶

Japanese: ソ 乚 ハ

(But 心 is same)

戊

Chinese: 厂 乚 丿 丶

Japanese: 丿 戈

(But 厂, 戈 is same)

王

Chinese: 二 丄

Japanese: 丅 二

(But 十 is same)

田

Chinese: 冂 十 一

Japanese: 冂 丨 二

(But 申 is same)

曲

Chinese: 冂 卄 一

Japanese: 冂 刂 二

Is there a pattern to this madness? Or a comprehensive list?