So I started reading this book called 『英語に好かれるとっておきの方法』. I’m only about 25% in, but one part really struck me. The author talks about the input and output method for English learners, and says something like:
“Learn the expressions and words that express who you are and how you feel. Not being able to express yourself in the way you want is exhausting.”
That really hit me because it’s exactly what I’ve been realizing about my own Japanese learning lately.
Up to now, I’ve mostly learned from textbooks and grammar guides. But that kind of learning doesn’t really help you express your own personality or emotions. I’ve barely consumed any real native material, and I don’t really know how to say things that feel like me.
The way Japanese is taught often feels very cut-and-dry. For example, “you use this phrase in this situation, not that one,” etc. I get that cultural nuance is important, but sometimes it feels like the language I’m learning isn’t mine.
So I want to start paying attention to expressions that really fit my feelings and personality. Things I’d actually say if I were Japanese.
Has anyone else felt this way? How do you find and learn Japanese expressions that actually express yourself?
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