EDIT: There seems to be a misunderstanding here. I'm not having marital issues or anything, I'm not looking for judgement or common western internet advice like "do chores without being asked," I just want some ideas to spice things up and make my wife feel special. Doing the same stuff all the time (like flowers) stops being as special, you know?
For anyone who has been happily married to a Japanese woman (or is a Japanese woman), what sort of things do you do to make your wife happy and/or feel more loved or connected with?
Despite living here for over a decade I still have a very western-centric view of this so I am wondering if I can get some alternate opinions here.
I already handle more than my share of the chores so I don't think there is much more I can do there.
by ZaHiro86