I am currently unsure about what direction to take with my future. I am a 27-year-old (F), a U.S. citizen, with no children and three cats. Professionally, I work as a Hospital Residency Program Administrator, and I hold a Bachelor’s degree. I am also in graduate school pursuing a Master’s degree in Healthcare Administration.
I recently returned from what I consider my dream trip to Japan, and the experience left a deep impact on me. Since coming back, I have been seriously considering the possibility of relocating to Japan after completing my master’s program. I am not bilingual at this time, but I have a strong respect and admiration for Japanese culture and society.
During my stay, I observed several aspects of daily life that appealed to me on a personal and professional level:
Public Transportation & Affordability:
Japan’s transportation system was extremely efficient and accessible, especially compared to many parts of the United States. I was impressed by how easy it was to navigate trains and buses, which made daily movement stress-free. I also noticed that the cost of living, especially groceries and everyday necessities, seemed more affordable than what I experience in the U.S. For example, purchasing items like eggs, produce, and basic cooking staples cost significantly less than what I am used to paying at home.
Safety & Social Environment:
As a woman, the sense of safety I felt in Japan was unlike anything I have experienced in the United States. I often feel on guard or anxious in public spaces back home, but in Japan, that fear was noticeably reduced. Beyond safety, I appreciated the social expectations around public behavior, courtesy, and respect for shared spaces. The general cleanliness in cities and towns was remarkable, and it contributed to a feeling of mutual responsibility and community pride.
Cultural and Societal Values:
While I know that living abroad is very different from visiting as a tourist, the societal structure and culture in Japan seem more aligned with the lifestyle I am seeking. In the United States, I often feel weighed down by the high cost of living, inflation, and a strong emphasis on individualism. In contrast, Japanese society appeared to operate with a strong sense of community, organization, and cooperation. I gained the impression that tax revenue is actively used to support public systems that citizens directly benefit from, such as transit, safety, and cleanliness.
These differences have led me to question whether the U.S. is where I want to spend the rest of my life. I find myself wanting to explore a future outside the United States—a place where I may feel safer, more connected, and more supported by the surrounding culture and social systems.
I have about a year and a half left before I finish my master’s degree, and I would like to use that time to plan the next stage of my life. I am aware that moving to Japan long-term involves significant challenges: immigration requirements, employment qualifications, language acquisition, and cultural adjustment. However, I am motivated and willing to explore these factors seriously. Ultimately, my long-term goal is to build a life that aligns with my values, even if that life takes place outside the United States.
by nanamiskiss