Considering a Management Move to Japan — Negotiation, Career Impact & Dating in Tokyo?

Hi everyone,

I’m a 36F in a management role at an Indian company. My firm has asked me to consider relocating to Tokyo,Japan and after I expressed keenness on relocation, have requested that I start the work visa process, with role details and compensation to be discussed later.

Background:
• Graduate from a top B-school in India. Currently handle P&L responsibility for the Japan market; the Japan role is expected to be similar but more clarity will emerge later.

• Lived in Japan for 2 years previously; JLPT N4, actively improving

• Divorced and also keen on settling down in a long term relationship soon.

I’d appreciate advice on:

1.  Negotiation: Is it common to initiate the visa process before finalising role scope and salary? What should I watch out for when negotiating a Japan-based management role? Any advice on how to research for comparable salaries in Japan?

2.  Career impact: From a long-term perspective, does moving to Japan typically make sense if structured well?

3.  Life & dating: What is the dating/relationship scene like in Tokyo for foreign professionals in their mid-to-late 30s?

4.  Preparation: What should I start preparing or researching now to make the transition smoother?

Insights from people who’ve worked or lived in Japan would be very helpful. Thanks!