Hi all, had an experience today in Tokyo and wanted to understand what the local etiquette is around lining up.
We queued up at a super popular restaurant Godaime Hanayama Udon Nihonbashi that always has a long line of people waiting. In front of us was a single suited guy who had already been waiting for at least 10-15 minutes.
Then suddenly a group of 10 people (tourists) showed up and took his place — turns out he was basically holding the spot for them (seemed like maybe a driver or assistant). This group also looked like they were rich with the brands that they were wearing and had assistants/maids accompanying them.
This obviously increased our wait time quite a bit, and the restaurant didn’t intervene when we pointed it out.
My partner got pretty upset and ended up confronting them, which turned into a an argument. Their stance was that it’s totally fine for one person to hold a place for a group of any size, and that if we had asked “nicely”, they might have let us and all others go ahead.
So now I’m curious — what’s actually considered proper line etiquette in Japan?
Is it generally acceptable for one person to queue and then have a large group join later? Or is this frowned upon but just tolerated?
Would appreciate any insight so we know what to expect (and how to handle it) next time.
by Illustrious-Zebra319