How do I not sound zesty/gay in Japanese?

I AM NOT HOMOPHOBIC, THIS IS A GENUINE QUESTION. With that out of the way, according to my friends i sound kinda zesty in English. (Ts acc constant bullying)

I‘ve even been compared to James Charles???? I personally disagree but whatever ig.

Anyways, I would like to know if there are any specific phrases, words, accents etc that are typically seen as too feminine or that may cause people to call me zesty/gay. this is a huge problem in English (for some reason???) so I’d like to avoid it in Japanese 🙁

(I know some things like how あたし is typically used by women but not much else)

by _Acceltra_