Hello, some months ago I was asking for some advice about divorcing my husband. Thanks to your advice I contacted a lawyer, talked to divorced foreign friends, did full STD tests, put evidences of his infidelity and lies in order. I got my apartment, moving out in 2 weeks. And now I'm arranging moving company, electricity providers, internet and other stuff. For summer holidays I went to my country to talk to my family and they support me whatever I do.
Recently we don't talk at all at home. Stbx is living his best life, spends nights in his "friends" places, buying fetish goods and going for trips with some of his gay friends. I know, because I made a fake fetish profile and blended into his friend group. I got all the information from the first hand.
Unfortunately lawyer said, my evidence isn't very strong. Same sex infidelity in this country isn't that strong compared to "traditional" one. Usually I could fight for 300万 yen in traditional infidelity case plus more because of my mental health and home payments. But in my situation it might be less, maybe max I can do will be 100, because his lawyer may say they are just his "friends". Friends can stay in same room, can play in latex and in animal cosplay. I got some photos from his fetish site, have his receipt from love hotel, love hotel card for his name and birthday, found viagra in his bag, std home kit and PreP kit and dating app account. And many meaningful comments to other guys. But it is not a strong proof, my lawyer said. I need a direct information about sexual relation and this is just circumstantial.
Therefore I will go with kyogi rikon. He already brought one sheet home and put just his part, I have to write mine. I want to submit it while living in my current address.
Can I really submit this document by myself?
Do I need to find my 2 witnesses and got their data and signs?
Will they call us to come to the city office and sign something together?
Will I need some documents, Koseki or juuminhyo to put it together?
I'm sorry I've got really confused answers from people I asked. I will ask in the city office too. I just want to close it, move out and start my healing.
by Comfortable-Soup4895