Budgeting for my next apartment in Tokyo [30 male]

I’ve been living in Yokohama for the last 6 years (19m squared, 40,000/mo). But I hang out in Tokyo more.

My salary is substantially higher than 6 years ago and my office is in Roppongi.

I want to move to a place closer to my work and is spacious (40-45m squared). But after talking with agents, the prices are the highest it’s ever been. (And expected to rise)

I’m a cheapskate and my maximum budget is 150,000/mo given it’s perfect. But ideally looking for below 110,000.

I can find places far but spacious from my work within 100,000, but places closer and smaller are about 130,000.

My family is urging me to move to a cheap and far place under 85,000 because they value saving money and are concerned about the rising costs of living. (I live alone btw)

But I think it might be a good idea to move into a close place in Tokyo while I can afford it before prices go up again. (Aka: investment for convenience assuming rents will never go down)

I don’t see myself earning lesser in the future, but my family does have a point in being able to save more. Since prices are rising, the money I save might be worth less anyways :/

Do you guys think I should move into a high budget place in Tokyo NOW? Or is it better to suck it up and try move to inner Tokyo LATER? (Gambling I make a lot more in the next couple years)

Also, would love to hear thoughts on the rising costs of living in general if you don’t have an opinion on my matter.