Hi everyone,
I’m 36 weeks pregnant and starting to feel pretty nervous about the upcoming delivery here in Japan. I recently discussed my birth plan with the midwife, but honestly, none of the things I wanted were really considered.
I had hoped to be more mobile while laboring (walking/moving around), but they said no.
I asked if I could avoid an episiotomy unless absolutely necessary – also rejected.
I also requested delayed cord clamping, but they said that’s not done at this hospital.
It left me feeling like my preferences don’t really matter, which is discouraging. I know Japan tends to have a more medicalized and standardized approach, but it’s still tough to hear when you had something different in mind.
On top of that, I’m confused about what exactly I need to take to the hospital. I’ve heard some places provide baby clothes, diapers, wipes, etc. during the stay, but others expect you to bring them. Same with maternity pads/postpartum underwear – I’m having a hard time finding ones that are underwear-style instead of just big pads.
For those who gave birth in Japan:
How did you handle it when your birth plan wasn’t really accepted?
What did you actually need to bring for yourself and the baby?
Any recommendations on where to buy good postpartum pads/underwear (the ones that feel more secure)?
Feeling a bit lost and anxious, so any advice or personal experiences would really help.
Thanks in advance!
by Coolcactus9