I am a 14-year-old male student in online school in the U.S., soon moving and transitioning to a public high school that offers exchange programs for 9th grade. I am accelerating academics to pursue a Japan exchange upon entering 10th grade in fall 2027. My focus is Japanese culture—traditions, history, and society—with an appreciation for anime and manga. Evaluating AFS, YFU, and similar options.
Seeking insights from U.S. high school exchange alumni on host families:
Family Structure: Size, ages, urban/rural setting, and dynamics?
Rules and Expectations: Curfews, chores (e.g., meals, tech use), social guidelines?
Cultural Highlights/Challenges: Rewarding moments (festivals, excursions) vs. adjustments (communication, routines)? Resolution strategies?
Tailored Advice: For a young male from public schools, rapport-building tips (gifts, topics mixing culture/anime)? Regional differences?
Your expertise is greatly appreciated.
I am also debating whether I should do it in HS or if I should wait until uni
by think1355