Itinerary Check: 12 Day Mother Daughter Trip April 2026

I've oversaturated myself with travel blogs and planning guides and I need a sanity check on our itinerary please! I'm (30s) taking my mom (60s) to Japan in mid-April, a first time trip to the country for the both of us, and probably her only, so I want to hit the highlights without overloading us. Plan is the classic golden route, and we're mostly focused on cultural things: gardens, shrines/temples, kimono, art, food, sake.

I've planned 4 days in Tokyo, 3 in Kyoto and 3 day trips from Kyoto: Himeji, Osaka, Uji/Nara. Flights are booked, but not hotels or other tickets yet. I have honed in on Dormy Inn hotels because of the breakfast buffet and the baths, since I don't have an onsen ryokan stay on the books. Meals aren't scheduled, I figure we'll eat breakfast at the hotel and see what resturants are around at lunch and dinner. If a neighborhood doesn't have any specific plans we'll just wander about. Mid-range budget, we can treat ourselves if we want but we're not going to Michelin starred resturants every night.

I need a sanity check that I'm not overloading us, and maybe suggestions on where to fit in a tea ceremony and Gotokuji temple.

  • 10APR – Tokyo
    • Arrive HND 15:25
    • Check in at hotel (Dormy Inn, Kanda/Ginza?)
    • Dinner
  • 11APR – Tokyo
    • Meji Jinju
    • Harajuku
      • Takashita St
    • Shibuya
      • Hachiko Statue
      • Shibuya Scramble
      • Japan Folk Craft Museum
      • Yoyagi Park
  • 12APR – Tokyo
    • Asakusa
      • Kimono Rental
      • Asakusa Tourist Center(?)
      • Nakamise-dori
      • Senso-ji
      • Kappabashi
  • 13APR – Tokyo
    • Imperial Palace Gardens
    • Ginza
    • Hamarikyu (free english guided tour at 1100 on 2nd Mondays)
    • Ueno
      • Nezu shrine
      • Ueno Park
      • Ameyoko St
  • 14APR – Tokyo
    • Nakano Broadway (second hand kimono shopping)
    • Ikebukero
    • Shinjuku
      • Hanazono Shrine
      • Shinjuku Goyen National Garden
      • Golden Gai
  • 15APR – Tokyo -> Kyoto
    • Akihabara?
    • Shinkansen:  Tokyo station -> Kyoto station, noon-ish
    • Check in at hotel (Kyoto Eki Dormy Inn)
  • 16APR – Kyoto
    • Arashiyama bamboo forest
    • Gioji temple
    • Kinkaku-ji
    • Nishijin textile center
    • Tondaya -Nishijin Japanese Cultural Experience Museum
    • Kyoto Imperial Palace
  • 17APR – Kyoto
    • Kiyomizu-dera
    • Kimono rental
    • Ninenzaka
    • Gion
    • Yasaka Shrine
    • Nishiki market
  • 18APR – Kyoto
    • Fushimi Inari
    • Gokonomiya shrine
    • Kyoto Insider Sake tour and tasting (1300)
  • 19APR – Osaka Day trip
    • Osaka castle gardens
    • Shitennoji temple
    • Nipponbashi
    • Namba yasaka shrine
    • Tsuyuno Tenjinsya
    • Isshin-ji temple
    • Sumiyoshi taisha
    • Kuromon market
    • Americamura
    • Dotonduri
  • 20APR – Himeiji Day Trip
    • Himeji Castle and grounds
    • Kokoen gardens
    • Miyuki shopping St.
  • 21APR – Uji/Nara Day trip
    • Uji
      • Byuodin Temple
      • Ujigami shrine
      • Uji Shrine
      • Byuodin shopping St
    • Nara
      • Todaiji temple
      • Deer Park
      • Kasuga shrine
  • 22APR – Kyoto-> Tokyo
    • Unplanned Kyoto exploration
    • Shinkansen: Kyoto to HND (Late afternoon)
    • Check into hotel (Villa Fontaine Grand at T3 HND)
  • 23APR – Leave
    • 10:55am flight back to USA

by eclectic_slytherin72