Modern ways queer ppl communicate that theyre trans or transfem

Ive done a bunch of research and found various terminology, but a lot of them feel kinda outdated. A lot of the terms ive heard are like reclaimed porn and crossdressing terminology. This vexes me because from what I've heard younger ppl or at least younger queers are much more positive in their outlook, and have their own terminology for it and the crossdressing words are going out of fashion. This feels more believable bc even with cultural differences I can't imagine younger transfems with access to the internet wanting to id with crossdressing terms, its just too self deprecating. The thing is i dont know what those terms are and cant find them anywhere.

by KingDM6