RResidents in Japan

Unhealthy and home sick

  • October 8, 2025

I am now here in japan learning at language school.Before Coming to japan I accidentally hurt my legs so bad.Doing wrong exercises and my the cartilage in knee is gone i guess.Coming to japan is to find money but now i am staying all day long in room and doing nothing like i am wasting my family’s money.I though the injury will be better when i reach to japan and rest for about 2 months or 3. But now its even worse its hurt when i walk.i want to go home but i dont want to tell my parents.Because They dont want me to come back because the politics of my national country is so bad.Also the money they paid for me to reach japan will also be a waste. Thats not their false.They want me to cure the injury in japan but the cost will be too high.they let me but i dont want to do.We are not rich nor poor we just normal family .i just want to go back home,stay with them and cure.They really care about me and love me. I dont want to hurt them. They said if i want to come back its okay but i know it will hurt them.I dont know what to do. Stay still in japan and cure the injury that doesnt sure how much it will cost and how much time does it take or Go back to my country and live with my parents and cure.

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6 comments

  1. Health is very important. Healthcare in Japan is very affordable compared to many countries worldwide. Contact someone at your university to get help with getting to a doctor.

    Tell your parents. Why would you ever imagine they want their baby hurt and alone? Even if they scold you, they love you.

    Don’t wait.

  2. If it hasn’t healed by now, it will likely only get worse if you wait any longer. And then it is going to cost more and take even longer to heal. Please go to a clinic and have it looked at ASAP. Going to a clinic is cheap, you don’t need to fear the cost.

    And about homesick: I have been in Japan for the best part of 25 years, and I am still homesick. You get used to it, don’t worry. 🙂

  3. Homesick is more worse when health is bad.In my country my families live warmly.I miss them so much.

  4. Please take care of yourself. Health is the most important thing.
    Being unhealthy to avoid worrying your family will only be counterproductive.
    At the very least, get yourself checked at a hospital to make sure your injuries aren’t serious.

  5. either you just go home and deal with it for good or stay if you think you can study and cure your leg at the same time (and affordable too); you are a man, be decisive and dont waste time thinking unecessary things too much it waste your youth

    im also just leave for Japan 3 months ago, found some ways such as hitokara, cook and eat whatever the fuck i want (yeah oc u need some money to kill boredom and solitude) i still feel homesick but it is much better than when i just got here

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