Chopsticks – which way is the correct way?

Ok you guys, for my whole life I’ve always held the chopsticks closer to the blue circle end and pick up the food with the pink circle end.

But then my husband went out to lunch with co-workers recently to a Japanese food place and they were like “bro you’re holding those wrong” and told him that you’re supposed to pick up the food with the blue circle end. He told me about this and I was like ummmmm no?? They wrong lol.

But now he’s got me questioning myself. Reddit, please help me. 😅